..i love you.. (i guess)

ive never been one of those girls who said fuck niggas...and i probably won't ever be one either.... but i can say i understand why girl feel that way... within the first 6 months of 2008 i have 2 friends walk in to their niggas house to find ANOTHER girl in the bed, 3 friends find out they're man was cheating on the with a friend, one who found out not only was she the other woman for the past 6 months but that his son will be born next week and he's getting married in august, 3 friends who bent over backwards and was the "perfect girlfriend" but was finally told "im just not ready for you yet, and my personal favorite one friend not only found out that their relationship was a bet but that the bet was made by her own brother.!! and with all of that going on yet and still i still have the thought that maybe love still exsist....???

..jealous & insecure..

..if yU cheat it won't last forever..

..insecurities cause grief and pain..it leaves scars and burns..and cause bumps and brusies..

..it can make yU lose ones that are close..and make it seem like love doesn't exist..

..jealously is a weak emotion..and confidence is sexy..but insecure is another word for pain..

..plain & simple..

..The greatest irony of love; ..

The greatest irony of love; loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right, and finding out you love someone right after that person walks out of your life. And sometimes, you think you're already over a person, but when you see them smile at you, you'll suddenly realize that you're just pretending to be over them just to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours again. For some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much they love that person. In my opinion, some are afraid to see the one they love being held by someone else... Most relationships tend to fail not because the absence of love, love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much and the other was being loved too little. As we all know that the heart is the center of the body but it beats on the left, and maybe that's the reason why the heart is not always right. Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love but to only to discover that for them we are just for passing time, while the one who truly loves us remains either a friend or a stranger.. So here's the piece of advice; let go when you're hurting too much. Give up when love isn't enough. And move on when things are not like before. For sure there is someone out there who will love you even more..