..if i was a boy.. (pt.2)

*tears*

since we were little we've always been told do unto other as you want done unto you... or for the simpler minds treat others the way you want to be treated. its like an unwritten law of life that is conciously and continously broken day after day after day...

but after realizing today was a sad day and that i have the blues... i began to re evaluate the lyrics of Beyonce's "If I Was a Boy" and it suddenly dawned on me... how unfair it would be for women to switch places like she says in the song...

in th song she says, "If I was a boy, I think I could understand, how it feels to love a girl, I swear Id be a better man...." by that one statement alone it simple proves that the man in the situation would never get to see or feel the way he treats his what's supposed to be his signifigant other... bcuz she has been priviliged enough to experience it herself and would do EVERYTHiNG in her power to prevent him from feeling the same pain... bcuz she doesn't want to feel it anymore... hence the whole "do unto others as you want done unto you" idea...

and not to say all boys are like this that's not what im saying at all bcuz i know a few girls that are guilty of the same but those come far and few in between... its just a shame to know that even if the role was reversed only one person would be treating the other the way they wanted to be treated....