..are you sure..

so i have this friend (no guys its not me.!) who's in a relationship (ha ha ha TOLD you it wasn't me...) and hasbeen in this relationship since we graduated back in 2006... and just like in any relationship things in the begining were the begining so everything was great...fun..nice...cute...sweet..and all that other wonderful stuff that comes from the begining...

(intermission...)
but as we are programed to do change begins to occur as we come into not only adulthood but our own selves... now usually for girls becoming a woman includes a lot of confidence and self esteem boosting... and its only obviously bcuz your outward apperance effects your inward emotions... in other words if you look pretty then you feel pretty... and as for boys becoming a man has a lot to do with being able to not only provide but also say you didnt it by yourself... there's a certain sense of independence that's required in this...

(now back to my friend....)
so my friend has a girlfriend who is how do you say... umm INSECURE.!! yea i know i didnt want to have to but its the TRUTH.!! and i can't help but state the facts... buther insecurties that lie within herself usually affect the self esteem and friendship my friend...(we'll call him Mario) Mario has with other people...

take me for example... now Mario is not my type hasn't been and never will be (no hard feelins... i know you're reading.!) but he's just not my type... but i can say he's one of my VERY BEST guy friends.... we just get each other... plain & simple.... there are just somethings both he and i enjoy that him and his girlfriend(we'll call her Tina) Tina don't agree on.... but bcuz she can't connect w. him on she doesn't want him to connect w. anyone else on it....

its like HELLOO.?? have you been paying attention for the past 2 1/2 years.? you're in a damn relationship that requires some give and take.... you can't take take take all the damn time and not expect to give... bcuz one outta two things are gonna happen if you don't give... he will either say FUCK THIS & YOU and leave your ass or just keep "the relationship" going and find another girl who will do all the things you won't.... now a days we call that cheating but for some (like in this situation) its just a search for good laughs & confersation...

now let me clear this up for all you messy, insecure, overtly cautions, nosey, and confused people...

THERE IS NOTHING GOING ON BETWEEN ME AND MARIO... OR MARIO & ANYBODY ELSE FOR THAT MATTER.!!!

but her constant insecure naggings have irratated, hurt, confused, belittled, stabbed and pulled poor little Mario soooo far to the left that now im upset (hense the blog...) its like "look girl.! for someone who wants to keep a good man you sure are pushing him away fast.!" [duh.!]

and you would thing a girl that's as smart as her would be head strong... but i guess its not only the pretty girls that are insecure... the nerds are too... but as we all know there are we are oblivious to the obvious and refuse to see what's simple right in front of us... so from one adult to another i say this...

love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. love never fails...

Everyone's gonna hurt you..you just have 2 decide who's worth the pain... remember true love knows how to behave....