..never say never..

another cliche' statement i know but yet again it seems to hold true right along w. the rest... i mean honestly if you think about 98.9% of the time whenever someone says "im not gonna..." they are usually temeted ith the very thing they said they wouldnt do and then further consumed with what they wouldnt by actually doing it.!! i just find it funny how the very things people speak against happen.!! not because of fate or "bad luck" but because the universe is just programed to fill voids and if by simply saying "No" is the trigger i cant imagine what the word "Never" would do... so for all those people who deem me crazy for living by the saying "whatever happens, happens." im sure are the same people who have said stuf like: "ill never let a man hit me, ill never get pregnant, ill never have a childish boy/girlfriend, ill never date a man w. kids, ill never work in retail, ill never be an insecure boy/girlfriend blah blah blah so on and so fourth..." are now kicking themselves as they look around at their surroundings evaluating their situations many for the first time and realizing "Oh Shit.!! im doing what i said i would never do." and they're kicking pretty hard...